After I got done crying and posting the below, my water broke.  I went to the hospital, they tried to turn the baby with no amniotic fluid… he wouldn't budge. So our precious baby boy was born Thursday February 5th at 8:46 p.m. by c-section.  It was fine, it was all fine, and we didn't have a choice about any of it which was a relief.  Baby is a healthy and beautiful 6.0 lb. 19-inch little punkin with long blond eyelashes.  We are undone with joy and relief and stunned gratitude.  Pictures coming soon.